1. Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak
For Marathi grooms and brides, late marriages mean suppressing their 'natural emotions' and moving forward, or it leads to obtaining these through illegal means. Nowadays, in urban life, many young people have a lot of money jingling in their pockets. That money makes them bold. They also know how to manage the consequences. And then, while walking on a crooked path, they don't feel a sense of community. Therefore, just as it is essential to marry at the right time, it is also important to consider marriage as a ritual.
2. Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak Mandal
These days, the age of marriage for girls is on the rise. Whether it's due to education, careers, jobs, financial independence, or personal development, the idea of Marathi brides marrying at around 26-27 and grooms at around 30 is gaining acceptance. There is no doubt that this will be formalized and will gain social acceptance in the next 20-25 years. However, it is important to consider whether all of this is appropriate.
3. Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak Mandal Pune
Earlier, once education was completed, thoughts about the girl's marriage process would begin. The search for a Marathi groom would start. After assessing the groom's character, thoughts, speech, financial status, overall family environment, and lifestyle, a match would be confirmed. The wedding would take place. The girl would integrate into the in-law’s environment and begin married life. These were the definitive stages concerning marriage at that time.
4. Marathi Vadhu Var Photo
Now the times have changed. Working women have become intelligent and smart. Like their husbands, they also have money in their pockets. They are aware of the talents and abilities hidden within themselves. They possess a perspective towards life and thus have formed 'decisive' opinions. They have gained self-confidence. If both the husband and wife adapt to this changed situation harmoniously, then it leads to a wonderful marriage. Otherwise, conflicts, rights, and problems like arguments arise. The home environment becomes polluted. Sometimes this even leads to divorce.
5. Lagnabandha Marathi Vadhu Var Satara (मराठी वधू वर)
There are many other details and nuances to this question of late marriage. Late marriage means 'having children late'! Is the age of thirty suitable for having children? Will her body support her well? Will she be able to cope effectively with pregnancy, childbirth, and the subsequent upbringing of children? Along with these questions, one must also consider another important aspect, which is the natural emotions of both young women and men.
6. Marathi Vadhu Var Melava
Around the age of 20-21, young people begin to feel the need for companionship. Attraction starts to develop. Then, to attract the other person, new fashions begin to emerge. There is expenditure on various types of clothing, hairstyles, purses, sandals, and shoes. Beauty parlors and gyms are available to make changes in one's personality. Advertisements on television also contribute to this... and then events, parties, and trips are organized where one can gather together. Through this, the organization grows. Ideas about a partner start to take 'shelter' in the mind.
7. ZEE Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak
Now, 'late marriage' means to suppress 'natural emotions' and move forward, or to obtain them through illegal means. In urban life, many young men and women today have plenty of money in their pockets. This money makes them bold. They are also aware of how to handle the consequences. And then, while walking down a crooked path, they do not feel the need to account for anyone.
8. Marathi Vadhu Var Mandal
Another thing! No matter how many changes occur in our society, one thing remains prevalent, which is that after marriage, the girl goes to live in the boy's house. Even if both her maiden and married surnames are retained, a new surname is inevitably added, and once a girl goes to her in-laws, she has to face many new situations. She encounters her in-laws, the elderly individuals who are sick and frail, other family relations, various likes and dislikes, personalities, insistence, obstinacy, traditions that have been followed in the house, customs, rituals, and many other such aspects.
9. Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak Kendra
When a newly married bride enters in the Maharashtrian family home, the other family members often do not change their lives. She primarily has to change herself. She has to manage things. At times, she has to take a step back. She has to suppress her feelings. It becomes difficult for girls who are older and have developed 'firm' opinions to accept these changes. The internal conflict grows. The exhilaration after returning from the honeymoon suddenly fades; feet return to the ground.
10. Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak Mandal in Mumbai
Just because a couple starts living separately after marriage does not mean that their lives become very happy. Even if the responsibilities of the elderly members in the house and other established customs and traditions are avoided, the household chores increase. When both husband and wife decide to go out for work, how and when do they manage the minute-to-minute tasks for 24 hours? Visitors, groceries, vegetables, festivals, illnesses, doctors, check-ups, fetching medicines, fixing the faulty telephone and changing the blown bulbs, paying the paperboy, the laundry man, and the cable operator, and when children arrive, there's nursery care, playground, studies, homework, tuitions, exams, parent meetings, and cooking the children's favorite dishes on Sundays - what is not included? Hundreds of such responsibilities can be mentioned. The husband and wife turn into machines. While these couples living separately do not realize when morning turns into evening, they also fail to notice when they were young and when they have become old.
11. Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak Mandal in Pune
Before considering marriage, both individuals must clearly understand whether they are accepting 'marriage' as a 'sacred tradition' or as a 'contract'. The term 'sacred tradition' encompasses many aspects, including physical purity, spiritual purification, enhancement of virtues, uplifting life, completing it in every way, elevating to a higher plane, and enriching it- in short, maintaining a balance of conduct, thought, and speech, among other things. When it comes to a 'contract', it involves conditions. It involves the enforcement of legalities. In this case, intellect plays a greater role than emotions. If agreeable, they can stay together; if not, they can part ways without any attachment. In such marriages, if there are no children, it is often better. At least they are not burdened by them. A live-in relationship is a branch that has sprouted from this contract.
12. Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak Kendra Pune
The marriage that brings two families together is a sacred ceremony. Experts from various fields have expressed that the recent transformation of this ceremony in Marathi society into an event is very concerning.
13. Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak Kendra Baramati
In earlier times, when marriages were arranged, customary rituals were always performed. Sometimes, family members from both sides would accept the girl along with the sacred fruit and take her into their fold. Such harmony was demonstrated before. At the root of all this, the moral values instilled at home are very important. This tradition still exists. However, now with the rapid movements in social media and the craving for publicity, society has developed a habit of treating everything as an event. Experts have expressed concern that wedding ceremonies have also become ensnared in this vortex.
14. ZEE Marathi Vadhu Var
If harmful practices infiltrating marriage and other religious activities are to be stopped, it is very important for parents to first instil moral values in their children. It was concluded that if this cultural practice is effectively maintained, the harmful customs that waste resources in marriage will certainly cease. After marriage, the husband and wife run their household. In such times, if the mother of the girl continues to interfere increasingly in this household, it disrupts the dynamics of the home. This interference needs to diminish after the marriage.
15. Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak Kendra Mumbai
Some families hold extravagant weddings while pondering their place in society. In this competition, the essence of the marriage ritual is completely lost. This is detrimental to society. Nowadays, mobile phones are becoming a major cause of divorce. While mobiles are acceptable as a tool, their excessive use in recent times has been highlighted as a reason for creating discord between husband and wife.
16. ZEE Marathi Vadhu Var Suchak Mandal
If the unreasonable demands made at the time of the wedding are not fulfilled, the married woman is subjected to harassment by the in-laws after the marriage. Incidents such as family disputes arise from this. Society needs to reflect on this.
17. Teli Marathi Vadhu Var
It is essential for both partners to agree on important decisions made after marriage. Therefore, it is necessary to have clear discussions on certain important topics with your prospective partner before marriage. In the current times, there are often several meetings between the boy and the girl before a marriage is arranged, allowing for open communication. If opinions on certain matters are understood prior to marriage, the thoughts of your partner are also comprehended, making decision-making easier.
18. Conclusion
If one wishes to maintain a marriage and ensure that married life is happy, content, and joyful, it is very important to understand one's partner. Marriage is a significant milestone in everyone’s life. Therefore, it is crucial to make decisions about one’s partner thoughtfully. Trust and love between husband and wife are fundamental in their relationship. Additionally, it is essential for thoughts to align. Especially, in making important decisions after marriage, having mutual agreement from both parties is necessary. For this reason, one should speak clearly about certain essential topics with their future partner before marriage. In the current times, boys and girls often meet several times prior to a marriage being arranged, enabling open communication. Thus, if one understands each other's opinions on certain matters before marriage, it also helps in comprehending one’s partner's thoughts and makes decision-making easier.
